My Friend, Dick C.

I met my friend Dick C. who happened to be my father-in-law when he was in his middle 50’s. He passed away about a year ago now at 88 years old. In those 30 some years I knew him he and I became good friends. I learned a lot from him along the way. I’d like to share some of the things I learned.

Happy Days with two of my favorite people

The biggest lesson I learned is that you can follow your dreams at any age. After the death of Dick’s youngest daughter he decided he would pursue a life long dream of flying. At the age when most people are making excuses to everyone around them about how they can’t learn or are too old to do something, Dick pursued his private pilot license. While still working as a mechanic and helping to take care of his wife who had M.S. he not only got his license, but pursued his passion for flying for the next 30 some years. In fact he flew till a few months before he died at 88 years old. One of his accomplishments was to take 3 of his grandsons up in the plane on Easter of the year he passed away. My three sons had ridden with him before and he wanted to be sure to take the 3 others as well.

Don’t tell me I can’t chase my Dream!!!

Besides being an avid pilot, he was a master tune-up man. Anyone in northern Montana can tell you if you wanted something fixed so it would run right take it to Dick.

Along with all this he was a fine story teller and I loved to listen to his stories of growing up on the North Dakota prairie and some of the characters he’d met along the way.

Yes he struggled with life’s problems like all of us do, but the important thing is he made some changes along the way and re-examined his life. The thing I will always remember is this: When I start making excuses about being not able to learn something or that I’m just a little too old to start over or try something I will remember this fine gentleman who was my friend and happened to be my father-in-law.